How do you wanna know that your friends are really bother to talk with you

Friends are really important to everyone. Friends are liked who you will never get bored and never end the relationship fast than in the love relationship. Friends are liked musics. When they talk, you listen to them. When you talk, they listen to you. But how do u know that your friends are really bother to talk with you?




When you chat, you bring out a lot of stories. But they always reply like this... " Ohh, Lol, haha, I see, good lar, then don't go lor, and so on ". This means that they don't really bother to chat with you. Does it sounds like you're talking to a wall? i can say the answer is yes. When you ask them for help from your friends, the way they is reply like this, "then don't go lor, go sleep lor, go lar...". It sounds like very easy like this..while you feel very confuse and brutal. But when they ask for help..you will give lotsa advice to them than they give u some advice. Sounds unfair huh? You wish they can talk a lot with you..but... you can't change them... or even you may find it very irritating and annoying. But sometimes you have to think yourself too, maybe you talk too much and they may find it very annoying.


If you finish your grandma stories/ crazy stories/ whatever. then they go talk other things...means that they dun really bother to listen/ read it... some ppl might be very selfish and always care about themselves. But some ppl are not on purpose, because they're not YOU.


If you know your friends treat the way to you like this, i can say u can end your conversation here. To my experience, i was scolded by 1 of my friend before..for not saying goodbye to her and offline straight away on msn without telling her and stop talking with her in the middle of our conversation for several times. I know this may find it very rude.. You might say i'm very rude..but you ler??? also what...


So friends, try to think twice what you have done to your friends. If you find it you're over talkative, pls control yourself sometimes. And you know friends are very important. Tell them honestly that if you're really busy right now so they can understand you and forgive you right away.



~*Friends Forever*~